Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Hypocrisy

I hate a hypocrite. If I going to be scold for something by someone I rather be scold by someone who didn't do that particular thing for habit.
Someone had lecture me about credibility and keeping one's own word. But he himself never does to me . This is a small matter not worth mentioning but I mention anyway because his policy is small things matter.
Last year I had a bet with this fellow if I drank a cup of coffee with one spoonful of salt I get one free hour of CC from him. I still remember he laugh at me as if I was a joke but I tell myself never mind since this is a bet, however I was a bit angry when he didn't belanja me CC. Not that I am desperate for that free gaming just like what he said small things matter and keeping up to one own words. The same fellow lecture me about not belanja him for the bet I lose and not being able to keep due to circumstances. The word he uses is he didn't want the free food just want me to keep my word. I was annoy by this bullshit, I mean what right does he have of scolding me for not holding my words when he doesn't that annoying pest.
Furthermore, at one time on few occasion he keep throwing tissue to my coffee and provoke me somemore. He always tell me don't make joke that hurt other feeling and not funny. There are others  things but forgotWell did he think of that when he throw tissue to my drink. I bet he think it funny, well I don't I think it annoying. It old news but I mention because he seem to forgotten and think only I am at fault. The reason I didn't mention this to him is I hate to bring up old news unlike him and I hate to be the one starting argument. Asking not to say can you remember this and that when he do the same sometimes like me.

Always want his way and always prying to things he didn't belong. He may have the intention of helping and I may need help in improving my attitude and behavior but the last thing I need is excessive control on my personal life. There are reason why I don't tell certain stuff so when I said I don't feel like telling stop probing. Stop using helping me as an excuse to pry into my life. If I need help I will ask. The other day said if I didn't tell him I wouldn't know the solution to my trouble which I already ask my other friends but he insist me telling him despite the fact I told other people and made known to him the fact. stop assuming i am an idiot and dont said you dont obviously you do by trying to solve every details of my life. I do need some personal space you know. Call me a blogger warrior if you want, just know the reason i am not arguing with you now is it too late and I don't want to have any discussion with you. You always claim I have the tendancy to debate, well you have the tendency to win at all cost so no point arguing especially when I my self is full of flaws and correcting myself but that doesn't give anybody right to control me more than my father did and my father does very well with control

1 comment:

  1. While we are to be a friend to the people we meet in life, not everyone of them has to be a close friend. You have the right to choose who you want to be close to and to share life with. Friendships that are more harm than help for both sides may as well not exist. You deserve as much respect as you should be giving others. Ultimately, it is up to you to decide whether a friendship is worth pursuing.

    Just a thought. :)

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